Sometimes we build a relationship not with the real person, but with our own stories and perceptions of the other person.
Where do you do this? And how is it working for you?
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We’d really like to hear your thoughts on this.
Dan & Carol
When life gets hectic, romance is often the first thing to fall away. Would that be true for you?
You know how it goes – hectic all day and when you finally get home, it’s a quick bite of supper and off to more meetings or flop on the couch in front of the tube or …
Why not keep the romance happening all of the time? I’m not necessarily meaning sex, however only you know what might happen. We’re meaning simple little acts, or behaviour to keep the interest and passion alive. Check this out!!
What one thing are you going to do TODAY? Just one thing!!
Have fun!
Dan & Carol
Carol and I had the extreme honour to present “Romance Your Business And Life” to an amazing group of women at the Millionaire Woman Club, an event organized by Debra Kasowski.
Here’s a short video Debra filmed that I’m sure you’ll enjoy. I challenge you to apply these Relationhship Tips.
Which one are you going to apply NOW?
And it’s important to build them everywhere.
I know this is not about the “couple relationship” however it will give you perspectives about how you and your partner can affect a much bigger circle. It’s all about sharing love, and creating opportunities to experience greater happiness, joy, and fulfillment.
Check out the video and article about a one-of-a-kind investment co-op we’ve been involved with in our community. It’s interesting to note that of the founding members, about half of them are rock-solid couples.
Go here and read down a bit to where you can watch the video and another link for the pdf file of the article. Please like them and share them around.
A critical starting place for us was recreation and kids, through support from Alberta Recreation and Parks Association (ARPA) and their Active Creative Engaged Program (ACE). And another critical support component was from Alberta Community and Cooperatives Association (ACCA).
Might it be the kind of thing you can work on together in your community? We’re happy to support and help however we can.
Have a super day!
Dan
It can be easy to ignore the condition of your relationship and think it will get better on it’s own. It doesn’t work like that.
We need to become honest and vulnerable, and reach out to others to ask for their support and help – firstly to your life-partner, and then maybe to search out and ask for help from others who are qualified.
So, what are you going to do today, to be a bit vulnerable, and reach out and ask for help?
If you need an understanding ear, please call us.
If you don’t create shared, or common experiences, what is it doing to the quality of your relationship?
So, the question again, what common experiences are you going to create TODAY?
And what do you suggest/recommend other couples do to bring their relationship closer together?
Today, just be nice!
It’s a great way to build and enhance any relationship, especially the one with your life-partner.
And keep doing this. We’re curious to know about the results you create.
Life can seem really hectic at times – rushing here, rushing there, plowing through the day. Ever experience that?
It’s worth the effort to backpaddle, slow down and enjoy the ride. Check out this metaphor.
When are you going to do it?
Do you have strategies for slowing down, so you can really enjoy your relationship and life? We’re curious to know about them.
This video was done a few weeks ago, however the message is very valid any time of the year.
Do you ever have negative feelings about your partner? Do you talk about them right away?
Or do you bottle them up inside until you’ve got a messy pile-up?
Here’s one thing to do to eliminate the challenge. And you can do it!!
What are you going to do with your piles now?
When we ask that question of our coaching clients, we often get blank stares, or total quiet on the other end of the phone.
Most of us can easily spout off all the things we don’t want and don’t like – and those are usually the things we see and experience regularly.
What might happen if you and I really got clear about what we DO want in our relationship? What might happen if we focussed on how we really want it to look like, sound like, and feel like? What might happen?
Here’s the first of a two-part blog about just this.
So, what do you want? We invite you to send us a note – we’d really like to hear from you.
