It can be easy to ignore the condition of your relationship and think it will get better on it’s own. It doesn’t work like that.
We need to become honest and vulnerable, and reach out to others to ask for their support and help – firstly to your life-partner, and then maybe to search out and ask for help from others who are qualified.
So, what are you going to do today, to be a bit vulnerable, and reach out and ask for help?
If you need an understanding ear, please call us.
If you don’t create shared, or common experiences, what is it doing to the quality of your relationship?
So, the question again, what common experiences are you going to create TODAY?
And what do you suggest/recommend other couples do to bring their relationship closer together?
This video was done a few weeks ago, however the message is very valid any time of the year.
Do you ever have negative feelings about your partner? Do you talk about them right away?
Or do you bottle them up inside until you’ve got a messy pile-up?
Here’s one thing to do to eliminate the challenge. And you can do it!!
What are you going to do with your piles now?
This is Part 2. If you missed Part 1, check it out here http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FZ-IveCFIdw
We often ask our coaching clients, “What do you want in your relationship?” A blank stare is often the response.
It can be exceptionally helpful to determine what you want in your relationship, and then apply a simple secret – give it away. In other words, give what you want the most, and you will likely receive it in direct proportion.
Give kindness; receive kindness. Give respect; receive respect. Give the gift of real listening; others will listen to you.
Isn’t it time to commit to this age-old Truth – with a capital “T”?
Give it a try and let us know what happens for you.
Dan & Carol
Sometimes life can seem so hectic. Do you ever feel overwhelmed?
Studies indicate that a persistent feeling of “overwhelmedness” leads to all kinds of physical, mental, and social disorders – dis-ease. I don’t want any of that, do you?
Here’s how to unload stress by getting all of that stuff off your heart and mind. Then you can choose the 1 most important thing to do. Just one thing at a time.
Give it a try and let us know how it worked for you. We’re curious to know, because we care.
Dan & Carol
With our busy lives, with work, business, kids, community duties, etc. it can be easy to become so “busy” that you may forget to take the necessary time to just “be” together, even if you don’t say anything.
This video will give you ideas of “1 thing” that you can do to eliminate/reduce the Growing Apart Syndrome.
What’s your perspective? Please let us know.
Have a super day!
Dan
Accountability is a buzz word that we all hear, use, and know about. But do you truly apply it, especially in your speech?
This is not meant to be an English lesson. However, are there ways to design your sentences in a way that is accountable, and so they don’t push other’s buttons – especially your life-partner’s? Here’s one thing you can do today!! Can’t you?
How can you apply this in your relationships at home, and at work?
We’re curious to know.
Have a Super Accountable Day!
Dan & Carol
A relationship is like dancing – sometimes you step on each others toes. Although it may hurt, there is always something you can do to help the situation.
Think, say, or do something. It’s worth it.
What are you going to do today?
Ever set New Years resolutions and then didn’t follow through?
Ever decided and talked about enhancements to your relationship for the coming year, and then it just didn’t happen?
You’re not alone.
Here’s a sure-fire way to set yourself on a good path in the coming year. It will take some time and dedication, but it will be fun, insightful, and energizing.
If you’re wondering where you are at in regard to your relationship now, download and complete this Relationship Self Check. You can make your own assessment. It will give you great material to talk about as a couple.
Christmas schedules can be hectic - parties, concerts, get-togethers, and…! It can be a heck of a lot of fun. But, it can also lead to stress when you and your life-partner have not done a good job of aligning and discussing your schedules.
Why not do something now to eliminate the stress? Here are communication tips to keep your schedules aligned and on-track.
