It can be easy to ignore the condition of your relationship and think it will get better on it’s own. It doesn’t work like that.
We need to become honest and vulnerable, and reach out to others to ask for their support and help – firstly to your life-partner, and then maybe to search out and ask for help from others who are qualified.
So, what are you going to do today, to be a bit vulnerable, and reach out and ask for help?
If you need an understanding ear, please call us.
Today, just be nice!
It’s a great way to build and enhance any relationship, especially the one with your life-partner.
And keep doing this. We’re curious to know about the results you create.
Life can seem really hectic at times – rushing here, rushing there, plowing through the day. Ever experience that?
It’s worth the effort to backpaddle, slow down and enjoy the ride. Check out this metaphor.
When are you going to do it?
Do you have strategies for slowing down, so you can really enjoy your relationship and life? We’re curious to know about them.
This video was done a few weeks ago, however the message is very valid any time of the year.
Do you ever have negative feelings about your partner? Do you talk about them right away?
Or do you bottle them up inside until you’ve got a messy pile-up?
Here’s one thing to do to eliminate the challenge. And you can do it!!
What are you going to do with your piles now?
This is Part 2. If you missed Part 1, check it out here http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FZ-IveCFIdw
We often ask our coaching clients, “What do you want in your relationship?” A blank stare is often the response.
It can be exceptionally helpful to determine what you want in your relationship, and then apply a simple secret – give it away. In other words, give what you want the most, and you will likely receive it in direct proportion.
Give kindness; receive kindness. Give respect; receive respect. Give the gift of real listening; others will listen to you.
Isn’t it time to commit to this age-old Truth – with a capital “T”?
Give it a try and let us know what happens for you.
Dan & Carol
When we ask that question of our coaching clients, we often get blank stares, or total quiet on the other end of the phone.
Most of us can easily spout off all the things we don’t want and don’t like – and those are usually the things we see and experience regularly.
What might happen if you and I really got clear about what we DO want in our relationship? What might happen if we focussed on how we really want it to look like, sound like, and feel like? What might happen?
Here’s the first of a two-part blog about just this.
So, what do you want? We invite you to send us a note – we’d really like to hear from you.
With our busy lives, with work, business, kids, community duties, etc. it can be easy to become so “busy” that you may forget to take the necessary time to just “be” together, even if you don’t say anything.
This video will give you ideas of “1 thing” that you can do to eliminate/reduce the Growing Apart Syndrome.
What’s your perspective? Please let us know.
Have a super day!
Dan
A relationship is sort of like a hockey game. Well not really, except it helps to have the home-ice advantage.
What I mean is that it is so beneficial when both people are their partner’s biggest cheerleader. Check out this video and then let us know how it works for you. We’re curious.
Do you want to improve your relationship with your life-partner? Even just a bit?
You don’t need to buy anything or go anywhere. All you need to do is ONE thing today. Just for today, do one nice thing for your partner. Do just one thing that shows you care. Do just one thing that is helpful.
It doesn’t matter what, just one thing today to show your partner you love him/her.
What are you going to do TODAY? Please let us know.
Here’s a beautiful little movie about the power of love. It’s a great reminder of what you and I can do everyday to enhance our own lives, and to see beauty in others. I know you’ll enjoy it.
What do you think?
